Seaside CPA wrote:That's fine if others want to work like that, but this year has about done me in. My father died in early March after an extended illness. If you have never gone through a tax season with an illness or death in the family, you do not know the meaning of stress. .
My dad was diagnosed with advanced cancer in 2011, died in March 2013 of suicide since he had become convinced he was not improving and that the cancer was advancing (not what doctors were saying, but still, his body told him otherwise). It hit hard, but I did not have time to really deal with his death in a healthy manner. Accordingly, I ended up "dealing with it" in late 2013 and into 2015 in rather unhealthy ways. A lot of alcohol, suicidal, etc. That was in my late 20s while making six figures in a high end position at a private company, and I was a bit of a prick because of my success...I knew my life had to change, so I immediately resigned my extremely stressful job without giving any notice (coincidentally, my replacement at that company just did the same thing, 6.5 years later). Took a few months off from doing any sort of work, figured out what I wanted to do and what I never wanted to do again. Five years later, here I am doing things my way, making good money, and actually living life.
My dad's death led to a lot of positive things in my life, but I had a cliff to climb after he died. I still miss him, without a doubt, but it ultimately made me reevaluate all of my priorities and money is no longer the top priority. It is why I am fully willing to disengage from PITA clients, whereas other CPAs accept abuse for fear of losing clients.