This article says:
Start with verbal communication
Don’t surprise clients you terminate with a letter informing them of your decision. Get personal and talk to them. Recognize that it may be painful and difficult, but the good-natured touch will typically smooth the transition.
Explain your reasoning, listen, and be empathetic.
You do excellent work, you have been a constant in their lives, and the change will likely not be welcomed as they won’t want to lose you. So, expect an emotional appeal. Know it is coming and stick to your guns.
I am guilty of surprising clients out of nowhere and TOTALLY blindsiding them with a disengagement letter that (in line with the CPIA article) does not give them a reason. I feel like this is bad business.
I still wish to protect myself and not give a reason with the disengagement, but how do you "warn a client" that it is coming?
Surprising a client, in my opinion, is just begging for bad reviews, of which my firm partially depends on.
The disadvantage is that you are giving reasons, even if in advance of the actual disengagement, which could increase your risk, correct?
I have a client right now who I do not get along with and I plan to disengage once his 1040 (w sole prop) is filed. His ineffectiveness combined with his constant demanding requests are so egregious that I will not be willing to work with him further. This is also the client who filed 3 incorrect 2553 forms, wouldn't pay me $150 to prepare and file the elections, but insisted that I stay on the phone while he did it and tell him what to indicate in each line (which I wouldn't do), and then demanded guidance on how to fix it with the IRS.
He's "out".
If I email the following "now" as we work on his taxes, do you think that this would be a reasonably safe way to not blindside him when I send the disengagement letter (which will be void of any reasons) a few weeks from now?
(note: our prior communication and our engagement agreement are very clear that we will not do his personal bookkeeping and that he would have to fill out our simple organizers - which he refuses to do. His answer to "how much qualified charity did you donate in 2022 was "
I have NO idea!, You figure it out").
Dear client:
I just don't have the availability to go through the 73 documents and 177 emails (actual numbers) to try and figure out the total of your qualified charitable cash and noncash donations.
Perhaps there is a misunderstanding in the expectation and availability of services that I am able to provide in addition to tax preparation. This excessive correspondence along with other items have me questioning whether we are a good fit for you as your tax preparers.
The number I have so far from an email somewhere is $2275 cash and $500 non cash. Please let me know if this is correct or, if not, what is the correct amount.I don't usually complain in client emails. But should I send this in a response?
Or should I just move on and blindside him later - potential bad reviews be darned?